Lady Gaga is embracing the next chapter of her life, sharing heartfelt reflections on family and her relationship with fiancé Michael Polansky. In her February 2025 Elle cover story, the 38-year-old music and acting powerhouse opened up about her dreams for the future, placing family at the heart of it all.
“Family is like the roots of the tree,” Lady Gaga explained. “They grow long, and sometimes they’re mangled, and sometimes they’re full of water, and sometimes they’re thirsty. Family is what makes you who you are and also defines your need for change.”
Gaga and Polansky, a Harvard graduate and successful venture capitalist, first crossed paths at a charity event in 2019. Since getting engaged last year, the couple has been building a life together, balancing the demands of her high-profile career and their shared private moments.
While Lady Gaga is known for her larger-than-life performances and bold persona, she cherishes the simplicity of her time with Polansky. “We make pasta together; we roast things,” she revealed. She also spoke warmly about her connection to Polansky’s family. “We really enjoy making simple dishes with Michael’s mom, who lives nearby. It’s these small moments that bring us closer together.”
Polansky echoed Gaga’s sentiment, describing their relationship as both down-to-earth and uniquely challenging due to her fame. “Our relationship is probably a lot like everyone else’s. We just have to figure out how to do some of it in public,” he said.
Amid the glitz and glamour of her career, which now includes starring in the highly anticipated Joker: Folie à Deux, Lady Gaga remains focused on the simpler joys of life. For her, the idea of starting a family is deeply intertwined with the love and partnership she’s built with Polansky.
“I’ve learned that family isn’t just about where you come from; it’s about who you choose to grow with,” Lady Gaga reflected. Her words reveal a woman grounded by her values, even as she continues to shine on the world stage.
As Lady Gaga looks ahead, she does so with love, purpose, and a profound appreciation for the roots that ground her.